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Monday, June 29, 2009

This morning I was thinking about a very close family member of mine who hates showing her arms because she thinks they are too big. She looks at me like I am crazy whenever I mention her showing her arms. I remember when I used to be that way when one of my big headed cousins told me my arm looked like a chitlin (It was funny), that's when I started to become self conscious. After awhile, I stopped caring because I started feeling limited when buying summer clothes because so many things are sleeveless and sometimes its just too hot for any kind of sleeve in the late summer months.


I am a firm believer of making the body you have work for you because there is too much great fashion to limit myself due to a little arm baggage. However, I do understand that it takes some time to become comfortable with your least favorite body parts. If you are someone who hates showing off your arms, there are a myriad of options out there for you besides long sleeve.


Fashion Savvy tips for arm cleavage:



1) If your arms are thick and bulky you may want to avoid cap sleeves. Cap sleeves normally stop about an inch or two under the shoulder. This can draw extra attention to the bulkiness of your arm. Instead, find sleeves that hit you in the middle of your arm. This will make your arm look a little smaller and will balance out the bulk.



Faith 21,$14.80,Sizes XL-2X



2) Flutter or Dolmen sleeves are also great at camouflaging stretchmarks or cellulite in the arm

Faith 21, $19.80 Sizes XL-2X



White House Black Market, $88, Sizes XXS-XL


3) For those of you whose arms are the least favorite part of your body and you you still like to expose them, I suggest trying halters or sweet heart neckline tops and dresses. I think it takes attention away from your arms and it puts the focus on your shoulders decolletage.

Ruby Rox at Macy's, $69,Sizes 14W-24W




White House Black Market, $78, Sizes 0-14




If you want to tone up your arms once and for all, see my fitness tip below;



My Arm Fitness Tip:





Buy a set of 3-5 pound dumbbells and every night do 3 sets of 10 for a week and every week there after move your reps up. This will add definition and shape to your arms.




And remember never let the imperfections of your body take control of your life or closet.

Thursday, June 25, 2009

With the next couple of days being in the 80 degree vicinity, I just realized that it will soon be time to break out the swimsuit, I almost forgot about it, due to the rainy cool weather we have been having in NYC. I still have the same swimsuit from two years ago and it is time for a new one. Especially since my son took it upon himself to inject my body with a few extra pounds.


I am not the kind of girl who loves to jump in the water and frolic around. Mainly because of an old cliche, "I CANNOT GET MY HAIR WET." I do not play with getting my hair wet. Did you see how Miami from Flavor of Love reacted whenever she had to participate in a water challenge? Yes, it gets that serious for me. If chlorine or ocean water touches my hair it will shrivel up like a Brillo pad. In the same breath, I can say that I do enjoy looking svelte and sexy sitting poolside or just soaking up the sun on the beach.





So, if you are dreading shopping for swimsuits, I took the liberty of decreasing some of your stress


Check out my tips below:



Savvy Savonne Tips:

1) If you have large breast (DD cups and up) Halter top bathing suits really work best for support. Especially if your breast are heavy or saggy.





Ann Cole at swimsuitsforall.com, $29.00 sizes 8-16.






JC Penney, $39.99-sizes 8-16




Sofia by Vix, $68-74, sizes S-L





2) If you have a large to XXL size butt and hips (Like me) I suggest skirted swimsuits, because they give your butt a slight cover up.



INC, $108-sizes 8-16




This skirtini is $59 at alwaysforme.com sizes 16w-26w





Kenneth Cole, $50-$62, Sizes S-XL




3) If you're trying to hide a stomach. ruching at the waist takes away from a round stomach and a sweetheart neckline brings attention upwards.



Jantzen, Trim Swim, $108, Sizes 8-18


My favorite tip for swimsuit shopping is:

BRING A FRIEND FOR HONESTY AND MORAL SUPPORT. You may see some heart breaking stuff in those fitting room mirrors.

Monday, June 22, 2009

For those of you who have not heard, Jimmy Choo is coming to H&M this November. They are doing a low end line for the Fall season at H&M. Check out the story at http://nymag.com/daily/fashion/2009/06/christmas_just_came_early_jimm.html?mid=fashion-alert--20090617

Which brings me to today's story:


Today while riding the train to work, I was staring down at my Michael Kors peep toe shoes that I bought at Century 21 in NYC. I  was eyeing them for about 2 weeks to see if they would be marked down again from their already low price. By the time the second week came, I realized there were only two pairs left in my size. This often happens to people who wear size 10 shoes and above. So, I decided to stop coveting the shoes and I just bought them.

The memory of my purchase just made me think about all the times I had gone into a shoe store and asked for a size 10 and the sales lady would say in her loudest voice, " We don't have no more big sizes left." I always wanted to say, "Damn miss, can you keep it down." That statement used to annoy me because, I never thought of my size 10 feet as big. I always felt that when I put the shoes on my feet, my feet looked medium sized, like a size 7 or 8. But, leave it to sales people to make you feel insecure about everything.

There are many obstacles that I have run into wearing a size 10.

There is only one of my size left or none.

The last pair in size 10 is all beat up and stretched out due to the sister before me who tried to squeeze her size 11 in my size 10.

Certain poiny toe shoes look like a banana boat on my feet.

Flats sometimes can make my feet look like they have doubled in length.

One of the worst things that can happen when you are a size 10 shoe or above is when you spot another woman in the store who wears a size 10 and hears the sales lady say, "We only have one size 10 left." Be prepared for a bull fight. First there is a stare down then you both start circling the shoe to see which one grabs it first. Then the attack happens. Hopefully you come out the winner. Not to toot my own horn, but, beep, beep, because I am usually the one who gets the shoe.


With all these obstacles, I still love my size 10 feet. I walk in stores proudly and yell back at the sales people, " DO YOU HAVE THESE IN A SIZE 10?" When I put my size 10 shoes on, I feel powerful and sexy. There is one good thing about being a size 10 shoe. I rarely have to worry about seeing alot of other women with the same shoes on.

To all my Big Footed Sisters out there kick up your heels in these trendy styles that range from size 6-12.


JCrew Tortoise Peep Te $178 Sizes 6M-12M




Christin Michaels at Zappos.com $127 Sizes 6M-11M



Type Z at Zappos.com, $95, Sizes 5-11







Coconuts at shoes.com, $65, sizes 6-11



Coconuts at shoes.com, $59, sizes 6-11


For anyone who is above a size 12 below are acouple of websites to check out that carry your beautiful big feet,LOL!





Friday, June 19, 2009

Do you ever wake up in the morning sometimes and look in the mirror and just say to your yourself. "I have a pretty nice body." Of course, every morning isn't that way, but you get atleast one feel good body moment a month. Well, yesterday, I had one of those mornings. It was casual Friday at work and I woke up feeling so good about myself that I grabbed my skinny ankle zipper jeans with a white collared shirt and my favorite black blazer that I bought at the gap. I put on my beige snakeskin 4 inch Nine West pumps and Michael Kors (Another one of my favorite designers) shades and walked to the train station listening to my summer anthem "Diva" by Beyonce on my ipod. In the words of Kanye West, " You could'nt tell me nothing."

Of course I took a slow walk to the train because whenever I think I look cute and I try to walk fast, I seem to miss a step and trip over my feet. Whenever I trip, I always think about Jerome from Martin and I say to myself, "I'm too smooth to be embarrased." But, I still feel stupid inside.



I don't know what it is about skinny jeans but, I just love them. They accentuate your hips and I swear they lift your butt. When worn with high heels you can't help but to get your Naomi Campbell walk on. Skinny jeans on a big butt, wide hips, or thick legs, brings a hint of sexiness when worn with the right top. Unfortunately, all skinny jeans are not made equal so be sure to take heed to my tips below:


1) If your hips are the most prominent part of your body (I say let it all hang out), but if you are not at that level of comfortability with that part of your body, you should wear a top that hits you at the top to mid section of the hips. This will make it look as if you lost a few inches in your hip area and it gives you a nice proportion and balance.

2) If you have a big butt and you want to show it off, get a pair of skinny jeans with back pocket designs or try a colored pair of skinny jeans. These are great from Dereon for $69 sizes 1/2-11/12 and the fushia skinny pants from Tripp jeans at Torrid.com for $48 sizes 12-24





Or if you have slim legs and want to pum up the size of your butt, Alloy has a great pair for $29.50 and they come in sizes 1-25.



3) If you want to de-emphasize your rear a simple medium to dark wash looks great, but make sure to get a top that will jazz up(old school word) the jeans. Forever 21's plus size line Faith 21 $38 sizes 12-24



4) If you have thick thighs take it easy on the tightness of the skinny jeans. Make sure you look for a pair that has a soft cotton spandex blend and feel or twill.



Many fashion stylist will tell you that if you are curvy you should skip the skinny jeans and wear straight leg jeans. Or if you are curvy never wear ligh colored pants. It is my belief that you do not have to be skinny to wear skinny jeans and as you continue to follow my blog, you will find out that I ignore fashion rules because fashion is supposed to be fun and creative and not restrictive. I agree that you should buy items that flatter your bottom, but I disagree with having a wadrobe witht he same cut and style of clothing. I say shake up your wadrobe and try some of the new trends.

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Last week on my lunch break I took a walk to Papa Johns pizza shop. As I was walking back with my $1 slices I was dying to rip in to, I saw a group of women just hanging out. As I walked by, one of them looked me up and down and said, "Damn, everyone is pregnant this summer." I was wondering who she was talking about. So, I did like the rapper T.I and I turned my head to the east and didn't see anyone by my side, I turned my head to west, still no one in sight.

I thought to myself, she's not talking to me. So, just as she did, I looked myself up and down and behold I saw the puffiness from the pleats and sure enough, I was looking at least 4 months pregnant. The horror!

Whenever I buy clothes, I analyze them to death to make sure it is the right item for me. The dress I had on was a pink dress I purchased at Ann Taylor Loft (One of my favorite stores for work and weekend clothes). The dress has a rounded v-neck and an empire waist that hits under my bustline with light pleating. Now, normally, I try not to buy empire waists because I do think they make you look pregnant. After just having a baby, looking pregnant is the last thing I want. I obviously failed that mission this time.

When I got home from work, I did a ten minute analysis on the dress and tried to figure out, how did I manage to look pregnant in this dress. Of course, the obvious is to cut back on the Papa Johns, but, even when I see people with flat stomachs, they still manage to have little baby bumps as well. Then it hit me. All Empire waists are not created equally. Especially when you are trying to camouflage a stomach.


Below are my tips to avoid my incident from happening to you:

1) If you have a round puffy stomach, you may want to avoid pleated high cut empire waists. Instead go for a smocked empire waist that hits in the middle . Its like cutting the stomach in half. Like this one from American Eagle on sale for $11.95 comes in sizes XS-XXL. I am purchasing this one today.


2) If you have a flat stomach (and yes you can be plus size with a flat stomach) the higher smocked empire waist that hits right above your bustline flatters the best. Like this one also from American Eagle on sale for $11.95 also comes in XS-XXL



How silly of me, this is the pink dress that was wrong for my belly. Its at Ann Taylor Loft, also on sale for $29.50. Comes in sizes XS-XXL

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

For all my big bosom buddies out there, I have found some great tops to get you through the summer. I know first hand how difficult it can be to stop your boobs from playing peek-a-boo with strangers.

I have always been a fan of Gap button up shirts for women who have full breasts and thick arms. The white cuffs gives this otherwise plain shirt a little excitement.






Everyone always says a v-neck is the best for large breast. I don't know about you, but I don't need a closet full of v-necks. So, I say try a pleated neck or a crew neck with ruffle sleeves which will balance out a large chest. Check out these two from Ann Taylor.




Tip for keeping the girls in check:

If your button ups keep popping open, take them to the cleaners and ask them to put Velcro in the area it keeps popping open

Monday, June 15, 2009

Many people think that just because you have hips and a big 'ole' butt that you should avoid pencil skirts. I totally disagree with that fashion rule for the curvy. I think pencil skirts can highlight the shape of your body whether you are a size six with hips and/or butt or you are a size 18. When it comes to pencil skirts, I believe in getting the cut for your butt. I remember when I was in college and I had this male friend who would call me hips and dips because my hips and butt were the most prominent accessory on my body. You could see them coming from a mile away. Although I laughed at his joke (It was funny) it made me feel a little insecure about wearing anything fitted on the lower half of my body.

Then one day, I received a compliment from a gentle men caller (I love this phrase from The Glass Menagerie), who loved that I had 'Big Ole' hips and a booty that I decided to show them off. Ever since 2002 I've been putting them on display (See pic at top left). Now for those young ladies out there with hips and dips, I suggest that you put your lower half curves on display and check out this pencil sateen cobalt blue pencil skirt from Torrid Sizes 12-26




and for my small waist big hip ladies check out this pleated tulip skirt from Forever 21 sizes XS-XL



Just let it all hang out.
For those of you who believe in looking your best whether its going to the store, going to work or going out to dinner, I am sure you can relate to this story.

My mom encouraged me to write this

Everyday I come into work, there is a co-worker who continues to ask me if my outfit or an item within my outfit is new. Not only does she ask if its new, she has to constantly make a fuss about how nice I look to the point that it becomes the topic of office conversation. I am all for girl power and complimenting your fellow girlfriend on how good she looks, but at some point a line needs to be drawn.
I came in on Monday, as soon as I saw her:

"Is that new?"

Tuesday, "Is that new?"

Wednesday, Is that new?"

Before I stapled her mouth shut, I had to kindly let "Ms. Is That New " know that she has only known me for a short period of time, so, anything that I wear will be new to her.

After my little talk with her, I called up one of my girlfriends (as I always do when a co-worker annoys me), and dished about what happened. Little did I know, my friend was experiencing the same thing at her job. She had a co-worker who would excessively comment about how nice she looked and even went to the extent of informing her that she was going to go and buy the same exact outfit. WTF!

Why do females do this? Since I am a curvaceous female, I get this a lot, because people think if you are full figured that you are limited when it comes to fashion. When they see how well you put things together, I think maybe they are in awe (or just being jerks).

I run with a crew of very stylish females and this happens to them all the time. It becomes annoying when people start to think that all you care about is your looks or that you spend every dollar you make shopping and that is not the case.


I know you are probably reading this and saying to yourself, "so what, who cares, people are starving in Africa." If you are, then maybe you are reading the wrong blog.

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