Rompers

I don't know about you, but I really like the rompers and jumpsuits that are coming back. It reminds me of my favorite era, the 70's. Remember when J.Lo made the jean jumpsuit popular back in the early 2000's, when she had just started her singing career. She had every girl around the way rocking the jean jumpsuit with heels.

If you are going to try this look please do it right. The romper can look a bit childish and inappropriate if you are over a certain age (TBD). The romper is sassy and edgy and it is a great look for day or night. The jumpsuit is sexy and feminine. It makes me want to cut off my hair rock an Afro, and change my name to Sheba as in the Queen of Sheba.

The romper shows off one of the great assets a woman has, and that is legs. However, I know that some women do not like their legs, which is why the jumpsuit is a great option because it highlights the decolletage which is something that I rarely hear woman complain about.

If you decide on purchasing a romper, please make sure it is the right cut for your body.

If you have small petite curves or a true hourglass figure then I suggest a tube style romper. It will help emphasize your chest while highlighting your waist and ample booty.


I like this one from Urban Outfitters. It's $48. Sizes XS-L


If you have fuller curves and an undefined waist, then I suggest a halter style romper. The one below is from Torrid. Its only $58. Sizes 10-28. The v-neck halter defines the breast and the belt will help create a waistline.


For those of you who may not like your legs due to cellulite or lack of tone and definition, then the jumpsuit is perfect.



Try this one from Baby Phat. Its nice and simple and the bootcut leg is flattering to thighs. Best of all there is no big cat symbol on the butt. Accessorize to make it your own. Try a big bold belt with a colored clutch. Or go casual chic with gladiator flat sandals and a straw bag.


$74, 1x-3x

For small petite curves, this Forever 21 jumpsuit is sexy and casual for daytime. I see big gold hoops with this.



$27.80, sizes S-L

If you are looking for something a little more sexier and trendy, then , go for the Dereon (picture below) jumpsuit with a one shoulder sleeve and skinny leg opening.


$99, sizes 1x-3x

Embracing The Body You Have Now

I'm quite sure by now you all have seen Khloe Kardashians new slim figure on the cover of Life & Style magazine. If you are a fan of the Kardashians like I am, then, you have seen Khloe struggle with her weight on their hit reality show. You also know that she was tired of being compared to her smaller petite sisters.

In the Life & Style article, Khloe states that she was tired of being the "Fat funny one." She now loves her new slender body and feels that she can now dress, "Trendier and younger." Khloe is now a size six and she is looking to lose an additional 10-20 pounds. Now, don't get me wrong, she looks great and I'm happy that she can now feel comfortable with her body. However, in my opinion, she was never this large fat girl that she and the media made her out to be. Her biggest size was a size 10 (WTF!). You and I both know a size 10 is still considered small.

What makes me so frustrated by these comments is the fact that she feels she can dress trendier and younger as a size six, as if she could not do it at a size 10. What message is this sending to our young girls who are size 10's and up. Don't get me wrong. I am all for a healthy body and life style, but to think that being smaller is equivalent to looking younger is a bunch of nonsense. I've seen plenty of old looking size 2's. What I do understand is that weight and body acceptance is a personal issue and you cannot make anyone love their body. They have to do it on their own.

My issue with weight loss is once you start losing weight and your clothes start fitting looser, you become extremely happy and motivated, but once you've met your goal you become relaxed and when the pounds start creeping back up you go into panic mode and start beating yourself up. Your self esteem is down and you begin to think that you only look good when you're smaller.

A few years ago I had this issue. I had just graduated from college and I had packed on quite a few pounds. I did not want to go anywhere. I tried to cover up myself as much as possible. I joined a weight loss club and lost over 30 pounds. Once that happened. I was all jolly again. I had a new lease on life. I wanted to go everywhere and be seen. Then about two years after that. I started getting comfortable and the pounds started creeping up. When that happened I vowed to myself that I would never go back into a shell.

So, as the weight was coming back, I adjusted my wardrobe to fit the body I had now. I would look in the mirror and say, "Yeah, butt, you are getting a little bigger, so, let me go find a pair of jeans to make you look good." I would also say, "Okay, I'm feeling a little chunky monkey today, but, tonight I'm going to go out and strut my stuff instead of sitting in the house feeling sad." These comments made me feel a little better each day and it made me make little dietary changes until I got my body back to where I was comfortable.

I think it is very important to embrace the body you have NOW. Don't wait until you lose weight to love or embrace your body. Don't wait until you lose weight to dress trendier or younger. Don't wait until you lose weight to go out with your friends and have a good time. You only have one body and it is going to take you through many ups and downs. You should make every effort possible to make yourself feel good about yourself. Do I wish my hips were smaller? Hell yeah! But when they are bigger I love how they fill out my skinny jeans, it makes me feel sexier. When I lose a few pounds and my hips are smaller I love how I can squeeze through a small space with out them knocking something down.

My life does not end because I am bigger and it does not begin because I am smaller.
So today, I say to you, Embrace, Embrace, Embrace! Embrace your body whether you have a big butt, gut, legs, thighs, hips, feet, or breast.

Turn those negative views into positive views. It's all about maintaining a healthy positive mind when it comes to what you think about yourself. Negative thoughts will just tear your spirit down. Tell your body thank you for carrying me through this far.

Whitening Your Curves

By: Alissa Wilson

Are you one of those people who is afraid to wear all white? Do you believe in that old saying that white makes you look bigger? Well, I'm here to tell you that you have been lied to. White is your friend. Say it with me, "white is my friend." There are countless women who shy away from wearing all white out of fear. They fear that they are going to look shapeless or round and floaty like a cloud.

As with any article of clothing looking good in all white is about fit and shape. Take Queen Latifah for example. Her white top is slightly fitted and skims the shape of her upper body. The one arm out takes the outfit from looking like a blur of white to daytime sexy. Since she doesn't have wide hips the shirt hits a few inches above her hip bone which makes her look long and lean. Now her pants are just a smidget tight but the overall look works.

If you are going to wear white pants and the curviest part of your body is your lower half I suggest straight leg or trouser white pants and your top should hit right at the top of your hip or in the middle of the hip which cuts the hip in half and gives the outfit a nice balance. this will also camouflage a big butt, but if there is no shame in your game and you want to accentuate your hips and butt in white. You may want to go for a skinny white jean and sky high heels. A tunic will balance out the lower half.

Tripp white skinny jeans, $48,12-26

If you are busty your white tops should also be fitted to skim the shape of your upper body. V-necks, and scoop necks look great on large breasts.

V-neck ruffle sweater, The Limited, $44, XS-XL

If you have thick thighs. I would do bootcut or wide leg jeans or pants in white. I think boot cut skims the shape of the leg and the slightly flare opening at the bottom offers balance to thighs and hips.

Alfani Wide Leg pants, $69, 2-14

Svboda Jeans, $138, 10-28

If you have a round stomach, a white top with a tie waist will give the illusion of a defined waist, plus its a break from the empire waist tops, that sometimes make you look pregnant. I also like tops with a bit of ruching to help take away some of the roundness in a stomach. It slims the obliques.

DKNYC, $59.50,XS-XL
Ralph Lauren, $59.50, S-XL

If you're still not comfortable. Go all white in a dress.

Monif C. convertible Dress, $195, One size fits all

Ann Taylor Loft, $69, 2-18

Diversify Your Shopping Portfolio!

By: Alissa Wilson

While the financial markets are beginning to stabilize many people are investing again, but, they aren't putting all their eggs in one basket this time around. If you are an avid watcher of the Suze Orman show like me, you know that she always says you want to diversify your portfolio. Spread your money around because if the markets go south again all of your money won't go with it.


I think the phrase "Diversify Your Portfolio" should also apply to your wardrobe and the places you shop to create it. When it comes to fashion I try not to be frivolous with my hard earned cash, bread, butter, cheddar, guap (so many terms for the word money). So, its easy for me to stick with what I know, but sometimes, branching out can take your wardrobe from cute to winding up lending out all your clothes because your friends are envious of your style.

I understand we all have our favorite stores because we know how well their cuts fit or the various cute styles they offer. I am a frequent shopper at Banana Republic and Ann Taylor Loft. These stores used to make up about 75% Of my wardrobe. As curvaceous women I don't think we realize how many stores and websites that cater to our curves, whether your curvy as a size 2 or 24. For example so many plus size women limit themselves to Lane Bryant and Ashley Stewart. Now, don't get me wrong, they have nice clothes, but, you put yourself in the position of seeing every Jane and Polly with the same outfit as you due to those stores being easy access for the plus size woman not having to buy clothes online.

I remember a few years back when I was working a part time job, a girl used to comment on how much she liked my clothes. So one day she finally asked, "Where do you get your clothes from?" and when I told her, she said, "Oh, I didn't know they made clothes for us. By us, she meant the term I hate most, "Big Girls." (I'm gagging as I write it) She said she mainly shops at Lane Bryant, Old Navy, and Ashley Stewart, mind you she was about a size 14. So she was missing out on other affordable designers and clothing stores.


Ladies fashion has expanded over the years and there are a bunch of great stores that carry an array of sizes that people overlook. Below is a list I conjured up for all my curvy girls whether you have large butts, thighs, hips, or breasts from sizes 2 and up, enjoy!


If you know of other stores please share so we all can start investing in some cool new pieces for our wardrobe.


If you live in NYC and you need a break from Lane Bryant or Ashley Stewart try


Lee Lee's Valise its a boutique for sizes 10-28. She carries alot of up coming designer brands and the prices range from moderate to slightly expensive. If you don't live in NYC go to http://www.leeleesvalise.com/ and order online.

Tory Burch
Carries sizes, 0-14, S-XL
www.toryburch.com

JCrew
Carries sizes 0-16, XXS-XL
http://www.jcrew.com/
My Verdict:Cuts are for smaller curves, but, the tops are a true fit.

Banana Republic
Carries sizes 0-16, XS-XL, Petite and Tall
http://www.bananarepublic.com/
My Verdict: Generous cuts in tops and true to size in pants. Jackson fit best for a big butt and hips. Martin fit is best for round stomachs and small hips and butts.

Ann Taylor & Ann Taylor Loft

Carries sizes, 2-18, XS-XXL, Petite and Long
http://www.anntaylor.com/
My Verdict: All cuts in tops and pants run true to size. The Julie fit in pants great for larger lower halves and the Ann cut in pants are great for medium size hips and butts.

Juicy Couture
carry sizes XS-XL, 0-14
Offers Plus Size sweatsuits at Saks.com

http://www.juicycouture.com/


My Verdict: You may need to go one size up just to be on the safe side.

Torrid
Carries sizes 12-28
http://www.torrid.com/

My Verdict: Since Torrid carries other brands the cuts vary, but the Torrid brand itself is a little more roomy, you will probably have to go one size down.

Monif C.

Carry sizes 14-24

http://www.monifc.com/

Igigi



Carry sizes 12-32
http://www.igigi.com/


Kiyonna

Carry sizes 10-32
http://www.kiyonna.com/
My Verdict: Definitely cut for fuller bodies. May have to go a size down if you are on the smaller spectrum of being plus size


Also if you don't know by now. Forever 21 carries a plus size line called Faith 21 in selected stores and online. Go to
http://www.forever21.com/ and click on the tab that says Faith 21.
My Verdict: Definitely cut for smaller curves. May need to go up a sizes in pants or dresses.


Check back tomorrow for part two of diversify your shopping portfolio.

Drop Dead Diva

Sunday night was the premiere of Life Times new show Drop Dead Diva. The show begins with an aspiring Price is Right model named Deb played by Brooke D'orsay who gets killed in a car crash and when she gets to heaven she realizes that she has not done any good or bad deeds, so her soul gets placed in a hard working lawyers body who happens to be plus size. The twist is that Deb still remembers her life as being thin and she tries to cope with her new life as a lawyer and her plus size body.

I already had some reservations about the show because of the dowdy looking plus size girl played by Brooke Elliott(who is a cutie pie). After watching the show, I can say it was pretty good. Yes, the character Jane is the typical stereotype that they make plus size women to be. The woe is me, I'm not beautiful, I hate my body, type of person. Being that Jane's character has the soul of an aspiring model, Jane (Brooke Elliott) gets a burst of confidence from her inner soul whenever she is feeling down.

I'm sure throughout the shows season, there will be numerous jokes and self esteem issues that Jane will experience because she's plus size. The dowdy plus size girl role annoys me because I feel like they never have roles for women who are comfortable in their skin. As if you have to be super thin tofeel good about yourself. The other thing that annoys me about shows like this is that they make the super thin blond woman shallow and uneducated. I feel like the world I live in offers examples of the opposite. I know many women who live happy fulfilled lives and they are plus size. I also know women who are very slim, loves fashion, and have high IQ's.

According to Margret Cho in her interview on the View. She says the show is about showing how society views beauty. Yes, we all know that society chooses skinny over fat and beauty over brains, but, how much longer are we as women going to stand for this. Overall the show is funny and smart. What I do hope is that Jane's inner soul begins to accepts and embraces her new body.

The show airs Sundays at 9pm right before Army Wives.

New Fashion Line For The Plus Size

On July 9Th the voluptuous Beth Ditto will unveil to the public, her plus size fashion line for Evans.com Beth is known for her rock punk attitude and style of dressing. Looking at some of the pieces, I think the line is geared toward the edgy rock and roll type of style. There are a couple of cute dresses like the sweetheart neck line with all the hearts (see pic below). Prices range from $37 - $133. Apparently she sought fashion advice from model Kate Moss who has her own fashion line at Top Shop, sizes range from 2-12, http://www.topshop.com/

What I like about Ditto's line is that it looks fun and unconventional. Sometimes fashion can be too serious with so many Do's and Dont's. It's nice to see that she is doing trendy styles that many plus size women would run away from. The jury is still out for me on the domino print dress. It is a bit bold for my taste, but, I'm sure some one's curves in this dress will draw alot of attention from some fine man.

If you don't know who Beth Ditto is:

Lately, there has been a lot of buzz about Beth Ditto doing a fashion line for Evans of London. Beth Ditto is part of an indie rock band called Gossip. She has gained notoriety due to her bearing her plus size frame on the cover of Love Magazine. Evans is a plus size fashion boutique located in the UK. They offer a modern and trendy array of clothing for sizes 14-28 on their website http://www.evans.co.uk.com/ for the U.S.

Tell me your thoughts on this line.

Photos are from Glamour.com

July 4th Weekend Sales

For many of you the July 4Th weekend starts today and there are a ton of sales going on. Now is a great time to create that summer wardrobe you've always wanted. If you're anything like me a big SALE sign in red makes you jump and down with glee as if you were an 8 year old kid. After many blunders with purchasing sale items, I feel like I have mastered how to prevent myself from buying things just because their on sale. It's really hard when you see a top for $5.99, but sometimes it's better to leave those items in the store and take the $5.99 and buy lunch.

My tips for shopping the SALE rack:

1) Get to the store early in the morning between 1-2 hours after the store opens. This will offer you a better selection of sizes and style choices.

2) Try it on. The worst thing is to purchase a sale item and it doesn't fit properly. You basically waisted your money.

3) Eat something before you shop, this will give you an idea of how things will look on you after your full or bloated. Have you ever bought a dress and convinced yourself that it will only look good if you don't eat anything, who wants to be around other people looking cute and your stomach starts to growl. Not sexy!

4) Set a realistic budget. This will keep you from going in the red on your bank statements. Once you set that budget only carry that amount of cash on you. This way you won't be tempted to spend more. DO NOT BLOW YOUR RENT MONEY on shopping. You will be homeless with a new wardrobe and no where to put it. That is not cute!

Below are a list of stores that are having sales worth mentioning:



Banana Republic

Additional 30% of sale price (in store only)

15% off $100 or more (online only)

Sizes-XS-XL and 0-16

http://www.bananarepublic.com/



Old Navy

Additional 25% off when you use your Old Navy card

Plus regular sales up to 50% off original prices

sizes XS-XXL and 2-20

http://www.oldnavy.com/



New York & Company

Additional 20% off sale items

http://www.nyandcompany.com/



Ann Taylor Loft

Additional 25% off sale items and up to 60% off regular prices

http://www.anntaylorloft.com/



The Limited

Up to 70% off original prices

sizes XS-XL and o-18

http://www.thelimited.com/



Lane Bryant

Up to 60% off regular priced items

Sizes 14-28

http://www.lanebryant.com/



Express

Box Sale starting at $9.99

Plus take an additional 30% off clearance items

Plus $15 off every $60 you spend

40% off tees and Polo's

Sizes XS-L and 0-14

http://www.express.com/



American Eagle Outfitters

Up to 70% off sale items

sizes XXS-XXL and 0-18

http://www.ae.com/



Macy's

Additional 25% off clearance

http://www.macys.com/



Lord & Taylor

45%-75% off sale items

Plus an additional 20% off sale items when you print out the savings pass

http://www.lordandtaylor.com/



If you sign up for email, most stores will offer an additional 15%-20% discount on your purchases



**If you are one of the many people who cannot afford to participate in the July 4Th Weekend shopping, then the budget friendly thing to do is shop your closet. Try mixing and matching different tops and bottoms to create different outfits. Many of us have tons of clothes in our closet that we have never worn or that we have worn once. This weekend is a great opportunity to DE-clutter your wardrobe.

Arm Cleavage

This morning I was thinking about a very close family member of mine who hates showing her arms because she thinks they are too big. She looks at me like I am crazy whenever I mention her showing her arms. I remember when I used to be that way when one of my big headed cousins told me my arm looked like a chitlin (It was funny), that's when I started to become self conscious. After awhile, I stopped caring because I started feeling limited when buying summer clothes because so many things are sleeveless and sometimes its just too hot for any kind of sleeve in the late summer months.


I am a firm believer of making the body you have work for you because there is too much great fashion to limit myself due to a little arm baggage. However, I do understand that it takes some time to become comfortable with your least favorite body parts. If you are someone who hates showing off your arms, there are a myriad of options out there for you besides long sleeve.


Fashion Savvy tips for arm cleavage:



1) If your arms are thick and bulky you may want to avoid cap sleeves. Cap sleeves normally stop about an inch or two under the shoulder. This can draw extra attention to the bulkiness of your arm. Instead, find sleeves that hit you in the middle of your arm. This will make your arm look a little smaller and will balance out the bulk.



Faith 21,$14.80,Sizes XL-2X



2) Flutter or Dolmen sleeves are also great at camouflaging stretchmarks or cellulite in the arm

Faith 21, $19.80 Sizes XL-2X



White House Black Market, $88, Sizes XXS-XL


3) For those of you whose arms are the least favorite part of your body and you you still like to expose them, I suggest trying halters or sweet heart neckline tops and dresses. I think it takes attention away from your arms and it puts the focus on your shoulders decolletage.

Ruby Rox at Macy's, $69,Sizes 14W-24W




White House Black Market, $78, Sizes 0-14




If you want to tone up your arms once and for all, see my fitness tip below;



My Arm Fitness Tip:





Buy a set of 3-5 pound dumbbells and every night do 3 sets of 10 for a week and every week there after move your reps up. This will add definition and shape to your arms.




And remember never let the imperfections of your body take control of your life or closet.

Swimsuit Season

With the next couple of days being in the 80 degree vicinity, I just realized that it will soon be time to break out the swimsuit, I almost forgot about it, due to the rainy cool weather we have been having in NYC. I still have the same swimsuit from two years ago and it is time for a new one. Especially since my son took it upon himself to inject my body with a few extra pounds.

I am not the kind of girl who loves to jump in the water and frolic around. Mainly because of an old cliche, "I CANNOT GET MY HAIR WET." I do not play with getting my hair wet. Did you see how Miami from Flavor of Love reacted whenever she had to participate in a water challenge? Yes, it gets that serious for me. If chlorine or ocean water touches my hair it will shrivel up like a Brillo pad. In the same breath, I can say that I do enjoy looking svelte and sexy sitting poolside or just soaking up the sun on the beach.

So, if you are dreading shopping for swimsuits, I took the liberty of decreasing some of your stress

Check out my tips below:

Savvy Savonne Tips:

1) If you have large breast (DD cups and up) Halter top bathing suits really work best for support. Especially if your breast are heavy or saggy.

Ann Cole at swimsuitsforall.com, $29.00 sizes 8-16.

JC Penney, $39.99-sizes 8-16

Sofia by Vix, $68-74, sizes S-L

2) If you have a large to XXL size butt and hips (Like me) I suggest skirted swimsuits, because they give your butt a slight cover up.

INC, $108-sizes 8-16

This skirtini is $59 at alwaysforme.com sizes 16w-26w

Kenneth Cole, $50-$62, Sizes S-XL

3) If you're trying to hide a stomach. ruching at the waist takes away from a round stomach and a sweetheart neckline brings attention upwards.

Jantzen, Trim Swim, $108, Sizes 8-18

My favorite tip for swimsuit shopping is:

BRING A FRIEND FOR HONESTY AND MORAL SUPPORT. You may see some heart breaking stuff in those fitting room mirrors.

Why I love My Size Ten Feet

For those of you who have not heard, Jimmy Choo is coming to H&M this November. They are doing a low end line for the Fall season at H&M. Check out the story at http://nymag.com/daily/fashion/2009/06/christmas_just_came_early_jimm.html?mid=fashion-alert--20090617

Which brings me to today's story:

Today while riding the train to work, I was staring down at my Michael Kors peep toe shoes that I bought at Century 21 in NYC. I  was eyeing them for about 2 weeks to see if they would be marked down again from their already low price. By the time the second week came, I realized there were only two pairs left in my size. This often happens to people who wear size 10 shoes and above. So, I decided to stop coveting the shoes and I just bought them.

The memory of my purchase just made me think about all the times I had gone into a shoe store and asked for a size 10 and the sales lady would say in her loudest voice, " We don't have no more big sizes left." I always wanted to say, "Damn miss, can you keep it down." That statement used to annoy me because, I never thought of my size 10 feet as big. I always felt that when I put the shoes on my feet, my feet looked medium sized, like a size 7 or 8. But, leave it to sales people to make you feel insecure about everything.

There are many obstacles that I have run into wearing a size 10.

There is only one of my size left or none.

The last pair in size 10 is all beat up and stretched out due to the sister before me who tried to squeeze her size 11 in my size 10.

Certain poiny toe shoes look like a banana boat on my feet.

Flats sometimes can make my feet look like they have doubled in length.

One of the worst things that can happen when you are a size 10 shoe or above is when you spot another woman in the store who wears a size 10 and hears the sales lady say, "We only have one size 10 left." Be prepared for a bull fight. First there is a stare down then you both start circling the shoe to see which one grabs it first. Then the attack happens. Hopefully you come out the winner. Not to toot my own horn, but, beep, beep, because I am usually the one who gets the shoe.

With all these obstacles, I still love my size 10 feet. I walk in stores proudly and yell back at the sales people, " DO YOU HAVE THESE IN A SIZE 10?" When I put my size 10 shoes on, I feel powerful and sexy. There is one good thing about being a size 10 shoe. I rarely have to worry about seeing alot of other women with the same shoes on.

To all my Big Footed Sisters out there kick up your heels in these trendy styles that range from size 6-12.

JCrew Tortoise Peep Te $178 Sizes 6M-12M

Christin Michaels at Zappos.com $127 Sizes 6M-11M



Type Z at Zappos.com, $95, Sizes 5-11

Coconuts at shoes.com, $65, sizes 6-11

Coconuts at shoes.com, $59, sizes 6-11

For anyone who is above a size 12 below are acouple of websites to check out that carry your beautiful big feet,LOL!

http://www.cinderellashoes.com/

http://www.heels.com/

http://www.zappos.com/

http://www.shoes.com/